For the past few years, baby showers have begun to outnumber weddings on my social calendar. Rather than making the hard choice of whether to give the bride and groom a salad plate from their everyday china or a platinum colander from Williams-Sonoma, I'm now shopping for kid's books. And it's only kids books; because though I realize that bottles and burp cloths are practical and things a new mother can put to use immediately, I make my living reading and writing. Books are what these kids are getting. Plus I have no children, and aren't we the friends with the free pass on impractical gifts?
Not that books are impractical. They aren't. Baby may need a few years before she can read Shel Silverstein's
Where the Sidewalk Ends, but it's an investment piece. Some bequeath savings bonds; I gift the
Treasury of Beatrix Potter.
At the University of Mississippi, Claiborne Barksdale and the
Barksdale Reading Institute are investing in children too. Established in 2000 with a generous $100 million donation by founders Jim and Sally Barksdale, the Institute is dedicated to increasing reading awareness and literacy in Mississippi schools and targets children in grades k-3rd grade. (In an earlier post, Ginna mentioned similar organizations: Book'em, Dolly Parton's Imagination Library, and the Governor's Books From Birth Foundation.)
I attended graduate school at Ole Miss and several times while I was there, I heard the Institute's Chief Executive Office, Claiborne Barksdale (brother to founder Jim
and a Vanderbilt alum), speak. Each time, his message was compelling; the most riveting and/or horrifying detail of his speech being the statistic that the state of Louisiana predicts the number of prison beds it will need by the reading level of its 3rd graders. As Barksdale explained, if a child can't read by the third-grade, his or her chances of catching up become a lot harder. The reading material they're expected to learn and absorb becomes more difficult, the math more complicated.
If there was ever a reason to give a child a book, there it is.
This past week, I learned it's never too early to start reading to a child either. I was at the home of one of my best friends, a place where nervous sorts should never tread. She has two children, a 3-yr. old and a 14-month old. The former was doing what all 3 yr. old boys love to do: taking every Thomas the Train/fire engine/miniature construction vehicle he had and spreading them out across the floor. The 14th- month old has just learned to walk and can't imagine
not taking advantage of her new-found mobility. (She's also my god-daughter so I think she's extra smart.)
I didn't know if reading to baby Addie would do much to distract her from climbing the walls, but I reasoned it was worth a shot. I picked up the
Itsy, Bitsy, Spider. I began to read. Lo and behold, and surprise, surprise, the child sat still. She smiled. She reached for the pages and when I was through reading, held up the book for me to start the reading all over again. If she wasn't hooked on reading, then I certainly was.
Now I'm compiling a list of books That Every Child Should Read. Or at least have a go at. In a future post, I'll share my picks, and if others have ideas and suggestions, please do share.